Tell your libido to shush
I appreciate it when you send a potential client my way. But I cringe if you happen to add anything to the effect of, “She’s a hottie.”
I’m not asking you not to be human, not to notice a pleasing appearance. I am asking you to keep the observation to yourself.
She is a professional. So am I. I intend to interact with her on that basis. When you tell me where she registers on your Personal Hotness Meter, you do her an injustice. You do me one, too. For that matter, you demean yourself.
This is the 21st Century. We have all had ample time to learn to do better.